The Chinese Family Tree at a Glance
Immediate family (parents, siblings, children)
| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|
| 爸爸 | bàba | father / dad |
| 妈妈 | māma | mother / mom |
| 哥哥 | gēge | older brother |
| 弟弟 | dìdi | younger brother |
| 姐姐 | jiějie | older sister |
| 妹妹 | mèimei | younger sister |
| 儿子 | érzi | son |
| 女儿 | nǚ'ér | daughter |
Grandparents — paternal vs maternal
| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|
| 爷爷 | yéye | paternal grandfather |
| 奶奶 | nǎinai | paternal grandmother |
| 外公 | wàigōng | maternal grandfather |
| 外婆 | wàipó | maternal grandmother |
Aunts and uncles — father's side
| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|
| 伯伯 | bóbo | father's older brother |
| 叔叔 | shūshu | father's younger brother |
| 姑姑 | gūgu | father's sister |
Aunts and uncles — mother's side
| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|
| 舅舅 | jiùjiu | mother's brother |
| 阿姨 | āyí | mother's sister |
Paternal vs Maternal: The Single Most Important Rule
When you learn the family tree in Mandarin, the most common beginner mistake is using 爷爷/奶奶 (paternal grandparents) for everyone. The 外 (wài, "outside") prefix marks the maternal side — 外公, 外婆, 外甥, 外孙 all describe relatives from your mother's family. Get this distinction right and the rest of the Chinese family tree falls into place quickly.
In daily speech, Chinese family members are addressed by their kinship term, not their name — a child calls their father 爸爸, not "John." More formal alternatives exist (父亲 fùqīn for father, 母亲 mǔqīn for mother) and appear in writing and ceremonies. The casual forms 爸爸/妈妈/哥哥 are what you will hear 95% of the time in modern China.
How to Practice the Family Tree in Chinese
- Draw your own family tree and label each person with their Chinese kinship term.
- Practice the paternal/maternal distinction first — 爷爷 vs 外公, 奶奶 vs 外婆. These two pairs trip up beginners more than any others.
- Use the typing chapters in this course to lock the pinyin spelling of each kinship term — many sound similar (姑姑 gūgu, 舅舅 jiùjiu, 叔叔 shūshu).
- Test yourself: can you name your cousin in Chinese? It depends on whether they are from your father's or mother's side, older or younger, male or female — four variables, four different words.